Divorce has been the fate of many marriages today due to some reason or the other. Many believed that when a wife is not submissive enough to her husband or in a situation where the husband started beating the wife are the issues that cause divorce in a marriage, these reasons are correct but there are more to it.




 It is always surprising when we hear there is a divorce between a couple without mentioning what happened before the couple gets married, this has been the most important part that has been neglected in society.

Many rushed into marriage without having the full knowledge of their partners, they are blind by the love and care they showed to each other when they were in courtship.



THINGS THAT SHOULD BE NOTED BEFORE MARRIAGE


     Lack of observations before marriage

Before you plan to marry your partner, think deeply did I deserve to marry this person with all these attitudes he is showing to you? It is not after you get married you will realize that you can't cope with the attitudes.


                  Blindness with love

 Some people are blind to see the wrong part of their partners before marriage due to the care the partner showed to her


     Believing in a supernatural being

This is very common in religions especially when there is a slight problem with the marriage, a partner might think the problem is caused through evil eyes as most Africans believe.


     Know yourself and what you want

One of the major problems that lead to divorce nowadays is low sexual performance. If you are a type that loves sex, it is appropriate to find who can meet up with your sexual performance. you will have no option but to start looking for someone else outside your marriage to satisfy you. Know yourself and know what you want, this may sound odd to some but believe me, knowing what u want and knowing yourself will enable you to know the right partner for yourself.


We can control the issues of divorce by putting into consideration the things that have been listed above

Before going into marriage try to build your relationship, know your partner, and understand yourself.

There is a saying that, "what women do not know Is that men do not only want love but respect because men define respect as love" 

Respect your partner either the man or the woman, and also be a submissive partner to your husband.